So how do you start to describe what fetishism means to you?  Its hard, everyone's definition is different, and so you seem to get certain people insisting that fetishism is one thing, when really its what you make of it that defines what its meaning is for you.
 
And also what makes finding compatible people challenging.
 
For me, fetishism is part dictionary definition and part something that can be damn hard to define at times (like now).  I guess that being an 'Electro Guy' helps as the the electro and gothic subcultures commonly cross the musical genre boundaries into the fetishistic subculture, and thusly its easier to be accepted as a fetishist by my friends.  I'd hate to be your average person, trapped within a society that shuns a healthy relationship with your sexuality.
 
So what would a fetishism section of a site be without telling you what things I am interested in?  I guess not much, though if you are a fat, balding, 40 year old married man, don't email me asking if I know any hot chicks in your area that will tie you up and pee on you.  I'm not cupid...
 
Good Things:  Rubber, Latex, Leather, Duct Tape, Women in corsets, anything bondage related as long as its erotic and/or harsh (I am a switch, though mostly bottom).
 
Bad Things:  Black rubber love yams (people that wear rubber... who shouldn't), tasteless and/or unsafe bondage people, Dominant people that think that because I wear a steel collar that they can just go and pull on it whenever they damn well feel like it.
 
If you want to know more, send me an email :)